Inspired by Ghanaian radio channel Joy FM’s discussion this morning, I feel like I have to make a comment on this topic, “What Do Women Want?”.
The discussion had a strong start. The host linked the discussion to yesterday’s International Women’s Day and aimed for understanding. A man called in and suggested that “a man who knows what his woman wants is a happy man”, explaining that then you know what is expected of you and can have harmony in your home.
However, soon the discussion was flooded with men calling in with grave generalizations. Several of them were suggesting that
“women do not know what they want themselves, so how can we know?”
or that women are “unpredictable” and “moody”.
How very convenient to say that! A way out for those too lazy to actually care about what women want?
Fellow blogger Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah (see her co-blogger Malaika’s International Women’s Day post) was a guest of the show and shared some levelheaded and feminist comments, for instance suggesting that men calling women “moody” and “hormonal” is a grave exaggeration many times used as an excuse to meet expectations.
On Joy FM’s Facebook page the discussion was at this time going wild! Some comments were debating materialistic wants and intangible ones
“women want time and attention when they are with a rich man and wants financial security when they find themselves with a “poor man””
Others again were holding forward how very complicated women are.
“Women are not complicated, we are very simple”
We women are just like anybody else. We like to be given respect, we like being listened to, we like it when you prioritize us and our wants and needs.
At this time, my phone rang. It was my husband calling to say good morning and ask how I was doing as this morning he left before I woke up. I smiled and said I was doing just fine.
That attentive phonecall, my friends, is how simple it is to give a woman what she wants.
The discussion is still going on at Joy FM’s Facebook page.Sharing is caring!
Precisely! I just want to know my man is thinking of me and appreciate it when shows that he is. It’s not hard at all.